I acknowledge that I cannot control others. I can only control myself.
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Of course, I like it when people think well of me, but I let go of worrying about what they might think. It’s a waste of my time and energy and causes me undue stress. I know I do my best and that is all I can do. I accept this and am okay with it.
When I live by the Golden Rule – “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you“ – and remain true to myself, I am confident most people will think highly of me. If they do not, I refuse to let it bother me, since I cannot control them anyway.
I like knowing that I am in control of my own thoughts, behaviors, and actions. It sure takes the burden off my shoulders to know that the only person I need to control is me. What an uplifting revelation!
I have gratitude to bring me joy.
I have a passion for life that enables me to enjoy every minute of every day by simply living in the moment.
I have affirmations to replace negative thoughts and attitudes with the positive ones I deserve. This tool allows me all the self-improvement I could ever desire.
Armed with my tools and my understanding of how I can shape my world, I go forth confident of success. Today, I choose to live every moment true to myself, not worrying about what others might think.
Self-Reflection Questions:
1. Do I fret over what others think of me?
2. What have my results been like when I’ve tried to control someone else?
3. What tools do I have that enable me to shape my surroundings?
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Yeah, I totally agree with you! It’s actually what I wanted to blog about next. It’s not right to try to change people, nor is it effective to try to help someone that doesn’t want it. Since we’re not able to change others, we should change ourselves. The only reason we want to change them is because it does not appeal to our values, morals, and understanding. We’re letting their actions affect how we act and that is not good at all. Let other people live and learn just as we once did! Good job on the writing! Keep up the good work! (=
What an interesting affirmation! It’s unique to see an affirmation of one’s limits instead of his/her potential.
I do like it, though.