I take full responsibility for my life. Though there are things and people outside of my control, I avoid blaming others and the circumstances in my life for my failures. I accept the idea that I am responsible for the outcomes in my life. Taking responsibility for my life is the only perspective that makes sense to me. If I allow myself to blame others, I give up my power. I believe that I have the power to create the life I desire. When I blame others, or life in general, I am … [Read More...] about I Take Responsibility For My Successes And Failures
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I am Solution-Driven
I avoid focusing on my problems. When I focus on the challenges in my life, I become less capable. I become stressed, anxious, and fail to find solutions. I also avoid ignoring my problems. Problems only increase in severity when ignored. When I have a challenge in my life, I choose to focus on solutions. I consciously put my attention on finding and implementing a solution and that process greatly increases the odds of eliminating that challenge. It is difficult to find a solution when … [Read More...] about I am Solution-Driven
Observation Helps Me To See What Is Important To Me
I spend more time listening and watching than I do speaking. When I pay less attention to sharing my perspective, I learn about the intentions that others have for me. My mind opens up to what someone is offering me. That gives me the opportunity to decide whether it is something that I am interested in. I also take moments to observe how others relate to each other. Building an intimate relationship takes a lot of research and emotional preparation. My friends and family members have … [Read More...] about Observation Helps Me To See What Is Important To Me
I Am Confident In The Presence Of Others
I am comfortable with myself. I know I am a good and kind person. I am pleased with the person I have become over the years. This is the foundation of my unshakeable confidence. I am comfortable in all situations. I enjoy being by myself for part of each day. The quiet and solitude are good for my soul and emotional health. However, I also like being around other people. Connecting with others is pleasant. I like to socialize! Social gatherings allow my self-confidence to shine. I carry … [Read More...] about I Am Confident In The Presence Of Others
I Have A Plan To Achieve My Desires
I have a clear vision in my mind for the life I want to live and experience. But I know that achieving that vision requires more than just a dream. It requires a plan. Knowing what I want is just the first step. It is a small, but critical step. However, more is required. Knowing and doing are two different things. Knowing what I want is insufficient to make it a reality. Luck is a lousy plan. Relying on luck gives up responsibility and control. I prefer to make a plan and work that … [Read More...] about I Have A Plan To Achieve My Desires